• Swirl’s Mission – Front and Center

    April 11, 2009 // No Comments »

    As many of you know, Alexis Jeffcott and I recently launched the Philadelphia Chapter of Swirl.  We host a monthly Pot Luck, a time for swirlies and allies to get to know each other in a relaxed atmosphere. Several exciting events are in the works as well.  We are hosting a fieldtrip to the “America I Am” Exhibit at the National Constitution Center.

    Another conversation we have been having – Loving Day events.  In the past, Swirl Chapters have functioned autonomously from each other and from Swirl National. We hold monthly calls to keep each other informed about local activities and idea sharing. In an effort to build our holistic capacity, we began discussing the possibility of  coordinating Loving Day activities and possibly entering into collaborations with local organizations. In short, capacity building.

    What is Loving Day?

    Loving Day is an educational community project. The name comes from Loving v. Virginia (1967), the landmark Supreme Court decision that legalized interracial marriage in the United States. Loving Day celebrations commemorate the anniversary of the Loving decision every year on or around June 12th.

    Mission Statement:

    Loving Day’s mission is to fight prejudice through education and to build a sense of community among people who engage in meaningful interracial and intercultural relationships.

    As we were pondering options, the shocking reality of Swirl’s relevance once again reared its ugly head!  While creating community is of utmost importance, challenging convetional notions of race and combating prejudice, racism and bigotry is our central aim.

    We have Obama as president, yet still live in an America where racism and racial violence – HATE CRIMES – run rampant! Last week, a California woman was the victim of race and bigotry because she had two children with a Black man. Swirl posted a solid public statement about this atrocity. I have posted it below.

    Stay tuned for a Philadelphia Loving Day announcement!

    RECENT HATE CRIME SHOULD PROMPT US TO SEE THE REALITY OF RACISM

    Jen Chau, Founder and Executive Director of Swirl, Inc.
    April 10, 2009

    Imagine swastikas and racial epithets spray-painted on your car right outside of your home. It’s scary and very upsetting.

    This describes precisely the recent hate crime committed against an interracial family in Los Alamitos, Calif., two days ago (Gleeson, 2009). As frightening and disconcerting as this is, it is important that we shake off our blinders and acknowledge the reality of racism today. We can wonder how something like this would happen in a “nice” neighborhood. We may question why these things are still happening when we have an African-American president of mixed heritage. And we could ask ourselves why people still see color.

    Or we can use our time instead to try to understand how racism continues to function in our lives in this country.

    Many of us don’t want to admit that this overwhelming problem still exists. Many declared that racism was dead in the days after Obama’s presidential win. Though change and progress are exciting, we cannot believe that racism has completely disappeared. Sometimes it is subtle and sometimes it is dormant, but we cannot be fooled into thinking it no longer exists. The shock that some of us display when a hate crime occurs is evidence that we as a people exist in severe denial. Yes, President Obama is in the White House; and we still have a huge battle with institutional racism ahead of us (e.g. the huge achievement gap in our urban public schools hasn’t magically disappeared yet; a byproduct of institutional racism).

    We must hear this terrible story and feel challenged to realistically acknowledge and think about our problems with racism on the individual, cultural and institutional level. The shock that hate crimes still happen doesn’t help us to confront the problem because we are so busy thinking about the incident as a strange occurrence or an outlier. If we believe that these types of crimes don’t happen in certain areas, we don’t feel compelled to address them. Why spend time problem-solving around oddities? However, if you look at the amount of hate crimes that we experience in a year across the country, you begin to see that strange occurrence after strange occurrence adds up to a very real pattern. In 2006, there were nearly 8,000 reported hate crimes (Federal Bureau of Investigation, 2007). The truth and the reality remains that racism continues all around us, still. We need to confront this truth honestly and realistically instead of lulling ourselves into believing that racism happens in pockets and doesn’t have a real hold on us.

    In this moment, let’s follow Teri Barber’s lead – if she is willing to leave her vandalized car in the street for all to see, we should be able to confront the truth of racism along with her.

    References:

    Federal Bureau of Investigations (2007, November 19). Hate crime in the U.S.: New stats and a continuing mission. Retrieved from http://www.fbi.gov/page2/nov07/hatecrime111907.html

    Gleeson, G. (2009, April 8). Epithets painted on mixed-race family car. Retrieved from http://abclocal.go.com/kabc/story?section=news/local/orange_county&id=6752164

    Posted in Diversity, Racism

    Enlightened Men Empowering Women

    November 22, 2008 // 2 Comments »

    The Women’s Way “Women of Influence” Conference turned out to be a great opportunity to network with various amazing women focused on improving education and providing better economic opportunities for members of their communities. I was most moved by the enlightened men who chose to attend the conference. The first of these enlightened men was Mayor Michael Nutter, who relayed an inspiring message as part of his opening remarks, that set the tone for the entire conference.  While I take issue with several of his recent decisions (particularly the approval of the recent casino permit), I applaud his strong and unwavering commitment to fighting community crime and violence against women and children.

    His challenge for men become engaged in finding solutions not only to violence throughout the city of Philadelphia but also to play a role the restoration of hope, dignity and civility within their communities was quite inspiring.  His message was a call to action for men, particullary as their presence is required at the table in order to win the war against violence – “The issue of violence, specifically as it relates to women is a MALE issue and a MALE problem.”  He went on to state, “Let me be clear, as a man, husband and father there is never any reason for a man to put his hands on a woman or child in any circumstance. It is not right or manly to engage in that kind of behavior.”

    One of the most impressive and dynamic panelists was Edwin Desamour, Program Director of Today’s Boys Tomorrow’s Men P@ WOAR (Women Organizing Against Rape).  Today’s Boys Tomorrow’s Men is an example of a program that does so much yet remains invisible within a city where the more recent shooting is the model for the hottest news stories.  Nevertheless, this program is front and center in engaging boys and young men in taking an active part in their communities by building strong relationships with themselves and the world around them.  The primary focus of this program is mentoring and motivation through action for good.   “This is not Today’s Thug, Tomorrow’s Inmate!”

    TBTM is a leadership program designed foster positive development and growth for today’s young males.

    Module 1 focuses on attitudes and abilities necessary for positive self-awareness and personal development.

    Module 2 focuses on skills and abilities needed to effectively plan for the future. Focus is also given to the development of relationships with peers, adults and employers.

    Educating and empowering young women is an essential component to combating violence in our communities.  Young men are equally essential in achieving this goal. Panelists continually turned to the need to regain a sense of civility in the ways in which we engage with each other.  Mayor Nutter and Edwin both pointed out that violence of the street is often a direct reflection and reenactment of the violence many young men and women witness and experience in their homes. Providing sustainable alternatives and providing opportunity and investment in community are crucial in breaking this chain.

    I participated in Philadelphia Futures for several years.  I have been unable to participate during my time at Villanova University.  However, now that I am done with school, I hope to once again volunteer my time as a mentor. I encourage you to check out the Philadelphia Futures mentoring program as well as these other great programs throughout the Philadelphia area:

    AMACHI - Mentoring Children of Prisoners in Philadelphia

    Public/Private Ventures

    Urban Health Initiatives

    Posted in ChangeBloggers, Community, Conferences